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Strategies

How to connect with your child:

  • Get down to your child’s level, facing each other.
  • Watch your child. Listen to your child. Follow his/her lead.
  • Tune into your child. Play and talk about what interests him/her.
  • Let your child actively participate. Language is best learned while doing.
  • Imitate the actions and sounds your child makes.
  • Use facial expressions and an interesting voice to show your child that what the two of you are doing is interesting and fun.

How to talk to your child:

  • Have fun.
  • Everything has a name. Use the name.
  • Use short simple sentences.
  • Use single words and then put them into a sentence.
  • Use natural gestures when you talk.
  • Tell, then show your child what you are doing.
  • Help your child by repeating important words. Repeat, repeat, repeat.
  • Give your child a chance to respond. Give your child at least 10 seconds to respond with sounds or gestures.

What to talk about:

  • Talk about the HERE and NOW.
  • Talk about the obvious.
  • Talk about what you are doing and what you are feeling.
  • Put your child’s feelings into words.
  • Talk about what your child is doing and what he/she is feeling.
 

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